I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding.
Found this blog just now after searching "married to a surgeon". After 21 years and an approaching empty nest, my husband has taken a new mistress His new, or rather, "renovated" mistress is physical activity.
I will definitely take your advice and talk with him about my concerns I truely love him and want us to see eye to eye about certain issues since we are working towards being in this for the long run. I will keep you posted and thanks again for your thoughtful response I really appreciate it.
And those women are very replaceable to them. If he says he wants to keep things casual, head for the hills - he's the latter and he doesn't appreciate you.
Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week.