So, kudos to you for having such a wonderful relationship for so long and getting through step 1 and 2 and matching. They are exhausted, under tons of pressure, stressed, and expected to be studying hours after their long shifts.
This isn't what I expected. I'd love to hear from more veterans about how to make this work in the long run.
I don't know how to manage the resentment. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was.
The thing is, i was already a. Single parent when I met her.