FritzRyan Casting - Jana.
My husband is a 3rd year ENT resident, and we started dating right before he started med school. I have a 12 year old daughter from my first marriage and so we didn't move in with him until he and I had been together for 2 years.
He has chosen to become a GP rather than an orthopeadic surgeon because that allows him to be home more. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle.
What is it like to become a doctor in your country. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard.
There have been many times my husband or I have actually said something like "it is good that I am committed to our marriage because this is not fun".
And don't get hung up on all the "lofty doc" stuff.